HAPPINESS OVERVIEW AND REMINDERS
POST TO LOOK AT TO REORIENT YOURSELF


Consider using this as a checklist of what you need on the path of happiness creating.
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GETTING TO HAPPINESS (Hint: It is not from others or circumstances.)

Learn what actually makes people happy (the creators) – thoroughly -->  Do it, implement it -->

Remind oneself, test oneself – keep top of the mind (use something like The Reminders Notebook)


EDUCATING ON WHAT CREATES HAPPINESS:

These must be assembled to complete the process of being happy.  You can use it as a checklist of what to complete on the road to happiness.

___ KNOWLEDGE/SKILLS IN HUMAN BEHAVIOR – How things work in life
            Including developing high Emotional Intelligence

___ RIGHT THINKING (The master skill)

       ___  + + BELIEFS, CORRECTED TO ALIGN WITH REALITY, and installed
       ___  Acceptance Of Reality – Without useless resistance
       ___  No right/wrong, fault, blame, criticism – Beliefs corrected for this
       ___  Giving up poor payoff control – Seeing the ineffectiveness of control, controlling others
       ___  Physically rewire the brain happiness center

___ WISDOM – Knowing how the brain, body, humans, and the world works – and doesn’t work.

       ___ SOUND PHILOSOPHY OF LIFE, PERSPECTIVE - Determines your personal psychology and
               happiness.  This needs a solid installation, so that you have a sound foundation for happiness.
       ___ Intelligent Optimism – Seeing the vast possibilities
       ___ 100% Responsibility - Essential "come from" to have have happiness
       ___ CHARACTER – A collection of disciplines to follow what works

___ OPERATE FROM THE PRINCIPLES OF LIFE

___ AUTHENTICITY, OPERATING WITH TRUTH, in line with values

___ + + GRATITUDE – For life and our human abilities, for all of the world, having a high perspective

___ SELF-SUFFICIENCY

       ___ + + SENSE OF CONTROL – I can make my life work, regardless of the circumstances.
             
               ___  100% Responsibility - Essential "come from" to have have happiness

       ___ SELF-NURTURANCE, COMPASSION/LOVE FOR SELF

       ___ SELF-CARE – Keep oneself at a state of high resourcefulness, not overloading, etc.

___  EFFECTIVE COPING SKILLS:  (Handling it all before one has developed all of the above.)

___ THOUGHT MANAGEMENT & PHYSICALLY CONTROLLING THE EFFECTS



USING ENHANCERS:  (To put into place and keep in place.)

   REMINDER SYSTEMS
    SUPPORT SYSTEMS
             PARTNERING WITH PEOPLE
             SUPPORTING STRUCTURES – Time mgmt, planning, systems   
   PRACTICES
   EXPOSURE TO POSITIVE, SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE – And reading, seeing examples/models.      


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I'd frame it and put it on a wall to use to get an immediate overview and reminder of what it takes and what to do and read.