THE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP
IT PAYS TO BE AWARE OF THESE!!!!


Beware!!!

ROMANCE STAGE

The chemicals of romance create an illusionary viewpoint!  Don't fall for it!  (And use the screening processes in Finding/Selecting Your Partner!!!)

    Read:

              The Love Quest, Let The Chemicals Reign!?! Or Play To Win?, but only if you
                   want to save alot of effort and be alot happier - priceless!
              The Neurochemistry Of Romance, Compelling And Erroneous - Don't be misled, as this
                   is the chemical "fooler" stage!  Inject rationality along the way, while still enjoying the
                   ride.


TO HAVE AND MAINTAIN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP

Beyond the romance stage, if you want a long term relationship, you must create the "bonding"  chemicals and keep them coming.  (Many people lose sight of this - and they stack the odds against themselves!)
  
    Read:

            The Neurochemistry Of Attachment - Creating And Keeping The Long Term Relationship
                  - Generate the bonding chemicals, as they have a remarkable compelling impact. 
                  These are a must for maintaining attachment. 


But the crucial key to creating and maintaining a worthwhile, loving relationship is to make the right decision for Stage 3 of relationships.   (Note that you should have 1) selected the right partner and 2) assured that the partner will be "willing" to do whatever it takes, as tested in the "MARRIAGE CERTIFICATION" process.)

    Read: 
           
              Stages - What Do You Choose Once The Romance Goes Into Stage 2?
                    - It is critical you are aware of these beforehand and that you heed the warnings and
                    make the right choices.  The  right choice helps to dramatically increase the odds of
                    a loving,  successful relationship!