THE CHARACTERISTICS OF BEING POWERFUL
AND HOW TO GET THERE
SEEING THE GAP, AND CLOSING IT
Where you are now --> --> Being powerful
The way to use this is to prioritize reading about those characteristics or practices that you think would be most important for you. It would also be good to read about the others. Obviously, you can look at the directory and then just use it as a checklist and a plan for your reading every night until you are "knowledgeable" and until you have a perspective and a certain wisdom about it.
The very top one is Responsibility (vs. Victimhood). You can't "get there" (to happiness) in life if you don't have 100% responsibility and underlying integrity (= everything fits together in consistency and alignment).
resistance. This is a step on the way to becoming fearless.
Integrity - The integrity factor is to power as a structural integrity is to a building.
powerful tool of all.
his/her power and you'll create extra power. Definitely avoid the opposite, as it
sets you up to be unpowerful.
vestiges of victimhood. See also, under Psychology, Managing The Mind, Beliefs/Thoughts, Victimhood.
ELEMENTS FOR CREATING MENTAL POWERFULNESS AND GETTING RID OF THE OBSTACLES
Practices, in the moment (Implement immediately, track them until installed!)
Never speaking in negatives - What we speak is actually input into grooving the
mechanical mind's patterns!
Instantly challenging and rephrasing any negative - Do not allow these to be held
and repeated as that will induce more stress; have zero tolerance; of course,
address what is legitimate.
Breathing correctly and hydrating for highest brain function and for calming the
emergency alarm system and its tendency to hyperreact.
Catching the drainers and stopping them - Notice and stop: Always being in a sense of
hurry/rush/not-there/not-enough; anxieties/worries (stop the repeating and/or repair
the cause and the very basis for such fruitless thinking habits.
An "always" follow up practice:
Reworking beliefs - You can't leave disabling or unworkable beliefs in place!
Affectors to add and build with
Affirmations - Creating focus on goals and/or installing effective beliefs to the level
of automatic and easily accessed and used.
Positive inputs (affect beliefs, allow more "seeing" of how things are done and/or
are possible) - Fuel, inspire, provides ideas...
Positive learnings - Learning what is truly effective in creating positive viewpoints
THE TOOLS CREATING POWER (EFFECTIVENESS)
80-20 Principle - Use this and you'll be 400% more effective in life, plus have lots
of leisure. (This takes you to a sister site.)
The "Timer Tool" - Use a timer to fit in small things, calm oneself, free self from anxiety, etc. - all things that can be done in a minute or two or five or ten - just set the timer, and knock off a bunch of things you would never have ever accomplished or felt good about otherwise!
Becoming A "Force Of Nature"
See what comprises becoming, metaphorically, a "Force Of Nature" in your life, with clarity of purpose, conviction, passion, daring action, and persistence, not from the point of view of efforting but from organizing and building a set of beliefs and principles that has you willing to experience life at a higher level. Free from The Option Institute: "Force Of Nature" Webinar.