Responsibility Victim Links

RESPONSIBILITY, VICTIMHOOD, AND POWER IN LIFE

CONTENTS/LINKS

A most vital area to be clear about, as it will, for sure, determine the quality of your life. Many people, regardless of their "act", are still to some degree slipping into the victim persona, at very, very high costs.

Learn this, be clear about it, master this area, and make the choices necessary to live a powerful life.

Your results in your life correlate with your level of responsibility you take in your life.

Read these and then rate yourself of the spectrum as to where you are now and where you will now choose to be:

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Victim 100% Responsibility

Responsibility Vs. Victimhood - A Look At Being Powerful Or Not

Responsibility - What Is It? How Do I

Create More Of It? What Are

Its Benefits

100% Responsibility

Cause In The Matter Of My Life - Inquiring And Making A Stand

How Can I Be Responsible When Something Is Out Of My Control?

Responsibility For Your Beliefs - Does It Lie From Where You Got Them?

The Allegory Of Change, And...Of Life, Responsibility, And Of Achieving Happiness

Proper, Proportionate Response - A key skill of responsibility.

VICTIM PERSONAS, ROLES

(See the box, to the right: leaving victimhood, into power.)

Victim/Child Vs. 100% Responsibility - The Indicators That Provide The Clarity To Choose

Victimhood - A Role We Don't See Ourselves Taking On But A Prime Cause Of Unhappiness!

The Child Persona - We Hold Onto This As If It Were Useful, But It Isn't! - It is highly disempowering and misleading.

Life - And A Choice Of How To Live It

Using the "child" metaphor, but not believing it is an entity, but rather using "what works"!

Caring, Feeling Presence - Loving Yourself - Useful "communication" device.

Relationships - Criticism, Blame, Victim

The Choice: Victim, Pleaser, Persecutor Or An Adult

Upset - Who Is Creating It And How To Solve It

Victim Statements - To help cause and/or reinforce being a victim.

LEAVING VICTIMHOOD, INTO POWER

The opposite of victimhood is Power In Life. See the related Power Contents, Links page to see what you can do. .

Having Power In Life = Truly Getting What You Want Out Of Life - Note using the "position of power" and also read and do:

The Physiology Of Power and

Not allow yourself to get out of a High State Of Resourcefulness,

Religiously assuring you are in the Power Zone of Homeostasis.

YOUR NEW "ROLE"

Rational, Nurturing Adult - The role to take.

DROPPING "THE STORY", RACKET

Releasing Yourself From "The Story", And Your Racket - Both put the responsibility elsewhere...

DROPPING THE LANGUAGE TRAP!

Powerful Languaging - A must, an absolute must, as practicing it will shift your behavior and thinking as a by-product. More powerful than you think.

This includes: No Justifications, Excuses,

Reasons-Why-Not

BELIEFS TO CORRECT - See Beliefs Contents/Links page to implement. These are all based on the Fault/Blame/Criticism syndrome, which must be corrected so that you're not fighting yourself and/or stuck in a harmful trap.

I Am Powerless

I Am Not Good Enough - See the related items also. Unravel this, forever! Don't tolerate it!

I Need Approval - No you don't. Evolution is behind on this one, so you have to use your higher brain to correct this!!!!

THE POINT OF IT ALL

"Life Value Productivity " - "Producing" The Maximum Life In Your Life!

CHANGING THE PILLARS OF BELIEF

Discover the beliefs that support the victim beliefs and then change them (using the forms and examples): Beliefs And Thoughts, Contents, Links.

"STRAIGHT THINKING" IN LIFE FOR EASE AND HAPPINESS

One of the best, i think, at straightening out people's misconceptions about life and about themselves is L.S. Barksdale. I recommend you consider reading the overview pieces at least - and then considering reading the books at no cost.

The Wisdom Of L.S. Barksdale - Straight Thinking, HIgh Self-Esteem, And Low Stress